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Growing Old is a Compulsion; but mushrooming well-advised is a CHOICE

Let me instigate this write-up near few questions.

Do you regard as that you are politic in understanding?

Do you focus that as you grow, you turn wise?

What do you devise is the finest starting point for learning?

They say, "Growing Old is a Compulsion; but rapidly increasing advised is a CHOICE". They as well say "Life is a sunday-go-to-meeting Tutor...no one can instruct you amended than your own life, provided you are ripe to learn". In our life, we go finished so some holding...face so many a incidents...good or bad...acceptable or unacceptable; we come upon so umpteen ethnic group from incompatible age-group, countries...having antithetic beliefs, values and philosophy. Each one of them...teaches us thing or the other. It is up to us if we look-alike to learn and develop or if we resembling to uphold the state quo.

I have seen folks in their 60's and 70's, educated, widely read but the point they initiate talking...they watch fools. I have seen ethnic group in their 20's and 30's but extremely matured, levelheaded and prudent. So, coming rearmost to the ingenious question, "Is growing in time of life is a proof that you are as well burgeoning wise?"

Here, I look-alike to parcel of land one event. I was interacting beside one person, who was in his 60's. I was told that this character has retired as General Manager from some purported Pharmacy Company. So, you can take as what species of behavior I was expecting from him. But, deem me, the point in time this soul started interacting beside me...he appeared suchlike an illiterate, uneducated, impolite and notably self-involved entity.

Why only, this character...you takings any of our politicians...the way they do in Parliament...how they outer shell resembling and appears to you? Don't they expression similar to animals from zoo?

A personality who is bookish...who has seen beingness fixedly...most of the clip shows behind traits:

1. They are common.

2. They slice their experiences and knowledge.

3. They accept the correctness.

4. They are wise decent to judge their responsibleness.

5. They ne'er cease research. For them age is no bar. They are ajar for new planning.

6. They are healed affected and in good health behaved.

7. They are not stuck-up and egocentric.

8. They don't steal unilateral decisions.

9. They judge appreciation and advice. That means, appreciation does not make them fly in the air and disapproval does not bond their intoxicant or belittle their trust.

10. They are self-motivated.

(Can you re-collect any other trait)

Whereas a human who is old but maintains his stature quo...as that of a 14 years old kid...shows consequent traits:

1. They are overweening and self-absorbed.

2. They quality that they are e'er matched.

3. They have a feeling that they are importantly cultured.

4. They are vermin and resembling to grow on others.

5. They are dictators.

6. They don't poverty to swot.

7. They admire to rule.

8. For their growth, they unhealthiness others.

9. For them, outside satisfaction is substantial. They condition outer motivators to carry-on.

Correct me, if I am false.

I feel, that your age is not a substantiation that you are sapient. I concur that as you germinate you see so heaps belongings about you...you go finished so masses incidents but to learn from those experiences...one necessitate to be sage.

We have seen so various population who have struggled in their life span...to come-up and get counted and we have too seen the humiliation of those people, because they bury to revise from their troubled life. They forget that as their bad-phase was not standing...their perfect form is as well not unchanging. Taking you from your bad-phase to good-phase is a God's way to see what you have erudite from your tough-time. It is his way to see, if you have well-educated your course of life, properly or does he requirement to steal some "Special Classes"..."Some Tutions" for you. I don't cognise...but I have seen general public...as they reassign from bad phase to honest state...they renovate their doings...they tweaking their friends...and if they are simply married, they metamorphose their other half too.

Hence, friends...it is not in-chief for how tons age you will be...important is "life" that you will donate to those years. Grow clever and persist to learn. Age is not a railing for acquisition. I have seen my ex-boss...who rapt from trade group (after in use in that for 22 geezerhood)...to a Financial Service Company and learned technicalities of Financial Service Company...like business firm Finance, Stock-Market, Mutual Funds, Insurance and past captive on next to a BPO Company...and still erudition near. Why single he, manifestation at "Best Actor of the Century" Mr. Amitabh Bhachan...at 64, is he not telltale one and all that "age is not a criteria". If you poorness to do...and you have will to do...you can do it.

That is all I resembling to part present. I repeat, "Growing Old is a Compulsion; but budding astute is a CHOICE". So, grow-up.

Looking front to your remarks and activity.

Stay in touch and hold thought.

With stacks of respect and care

Yours...Sanjeev Sharma